For years my paternal first cousins got nowhere with attempts of identifying with validation who the parents were of a great-grandfather I will identify as Henry.  I was up for the challenge and began with looking at family trees created by DNA match first cousins.  A number of them identified the parents, William and Ottilie.

I was interested in going back to William and Ottilie’s origins before they emigrated to the Wautoma, Wisconsin, area where they married, lived and died.  The research process started with locating the couple’s obituaries to get some idea who their children were.  

I was able to get this information both online (Ancestry.com, MyHeritage.com, FamilySearch to name a few) and through a library from the Wautoma area.  The librarian was very helpful in locating obituaries that GenealogyBank.com didn’t have, including those of the couple’s children.

I recorded my findings on family group sheets, hourglass charts and Google Drive documents and spreadsheets, citing sources along the way.  But, the information from obituaries for William and some of his children didn’t really add up.  

First, William arrived in Wisconsin in 1870 without Henry.  Henry arrived in 1900, not in Wisconsin, but in Canada and then crossing over the border to live in North Dakota.  It appeared that William and Henry didn’t have any contact over the years.  Henry wasn’t mentioned as one of William’s children in his obituary nor was he mentioned in obituaries of William’s children as a sibling.  

I wondered if the intent was for Henry to join William and the rest of the family years later for some unknown good reason or if they somehow lost contact with each other.  I examined vital records and other documents.  I couldn’t find anything useful to make any sense.

I moved on to making connections with second cousins who I got to know over time from Ancestry and then via Facebook.  I created a private Facebook group for both first and second cousins for collaboration.  Some cousins were told Henry came through Ellis Island before arriving in North Dakota.  Others didn’t know Henry well enough, having been too young to know more than what their parents told them.  

Family history books may have existed, I was told, but they were either sold or stolen.  Anyone who knew anything was dead.

Months later, I circled back to looking at DNA matches on Ancestry.  I wanted to give ThruLines a chance to work with a DNA tree I created for William and Ottilie.  I had only one DNA match connection to Ottilie and none for William.  Shared matches of my cousins didn’t include this match or any matches for that matter for either William or Ottilie.

I went back to “doing the genealogy” by studying locations of where William and Henry lived before arriving in the United States.  William was part of the German immigrant group known as Prussian Netzelanders based on a book compiled by genealogist Brian A. Podoll, C.G.R.S.  This group settled in the Wautoma area.  

One of my cousins indicated he thought Henry’s origins were Prussian, but I could not find any evidence to validate this thought.  Henry’s naturalization documents indicated that he was not born in a location under Prussian authority at the time of his birth.  Far from it.  Census records for Henry showed Henry didn’t come from Prussia either.  

A month later after trying every research trick I knew and looking at William’s children’s vital records, I pursued collateral research amongst William’s siblings.  This led to contact with someone who was not a DNA match but whose Ancestry tree included William’s family.  She was someone I knew from a Facebook genealogy group I belong to as well.

She took a look at my working trees on Ancestry and compared them to her tree, which turned out to actually be her husband’s.  After a lengthy conversation it was concluded that William and Ottilie had no connection at all to Henry.  

At this point, after learning from cousins that they had no idea how it was that this couple were Henry’s parents and added to Ancestry trees, I abandoned further research on them.  I removed them from working trees and my main tree.  

It was confirmed a month later (by now a total of 7 months of research) by another connection I made that this couple were not related at all to Henry.  So, the next question was, who really were Henry’s parents?

Some people may say I wasted 7 months of time only to find William and Ottilie were not Henry’s parents.  But, I didn’t see it that way.  I got the opportunity to put into practice skills that brought me closer to becoming an intermediate level genealogist.  

Lesson learned:  Do not take at face value what someone else has on a family tree.  Do the genealogy!